Today I am tasked with writing about how well I handle criticism. Can I take brutal honesty, or do I need to be handled with care.
I think that I now fall somewhere in the middle. I have spent the majority of my life with a very bad case of Low Self Esteem and in the past have gotten my feelings hurt very easily. I wanted everyone to like me and I think I took criticism as a vote against that. I have grown a lot in the past few years and I'm so much better. I like most people and hope they will like me, but I know everyone won't and that's okay. I can't say that criticism doesn't or won't ever hurt my feelings. Some people aren't very nice about it. From others though, I can now accept that it is meant to help and not to hurt. How can we make changes for the better if we are unaware of what needs to change.
I still would not include me in a group of people with soaring self esteem, but I have learned that I have worth. I am totally loved and treasured by my heavenly Father and His opinion is the one most important to me. In finding my rightful place in Him, I have found the strength to step forward and do things that the old Tonna would not, could not, do. Now as I rest in the knowledge of how loved I am, I am able to trust Him and His plans for me. I still have struggles, but Boy, Is it different now!
So, how are you liking my blog?----Be brutally honest. (giggle)
The Chicken Coop
I am a paper crafter. I've been playing with paper, and cutting and pasting for many years now and I still just love it. I teach classes each month and would love to have you.
You can find me at MyRedHen.blogspot.com and on Pinterest
or email me at MyRedHen4@yahoo.com
I'd love to hear from you.
Every now and then I have some cards or little treats available for sale that may be seen here.
My blog also contains my personal posts. Ignore them if you like, but you may get a kick out of them. Maybe my girls will read them one day and get insights into the inner workings of an old woman's brain....Scary Thought!
There is a list of labels on the right side of the blog, so you can click there to go to only the posts that you are interested in. That will allow you to skip the personal posts and any items for sale if you wish. No matter which way you choose, I hope will enjoy my little blog and visit often.
My blog also contains my personal posts. Ignore them if you like, but you may get a kick out of them. Maybe my girls will read them one day and get insights into the inner workings of an old woman's brain....Scary Thought!
There is a list of labels on the right side of the blog, so you can click there to go to only the posts that you are interested in. That will allow you to skip the personal posts and any items for sale if you wish. No matter which way you choose, I hope will enjoy my little blog and visit often.
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